So listen to me, if you want to build an incredible life, it’s not a matter of what you do today, tomorrow or the day after. It is a culmination of the daily habits that you do for years. So in today’s video, I’m going to run through the five daily habits that made me a multi-millionaire by the age of 21.
And if you implement all five of these into your life, I know that you are going to achieve incredible things.
So the 1st daily habit was setting daily challenges to speak to new people. And here’s what I mean. When I was 14 or 15, and I was either taking the public bus or the tube to school, I would actually set a challenge to myself to give a compliment every single day to just one stranger. And if anyone’s ever been in London, the tube is not a very friendly place, especially in the morning.
In the morning, everyone in the tube does not look like a very happy camper. And I knew that whatever I wanted to do in life, and fully enough, at the age of 14, 15, 16, I actually thought that I was going to become a real estate agent, learn about the real estate game, and then eventually get into property development in my late 20s, turns out that I went for a very completely different path, creating online bussinesses, software companies. And things that are very unrelated to what I had, in my mind and in my vision.Yet all of the principles still applied.
I knew that there are certain skills in life that if you learn, no matter what you do, it’s going to pay dividends. And being able to go up to a random stranger, and just give them a compliment. I don’t care if you’re a real estate agent. I don’t care if you have software companies like me. I don’t care if you become a youtuber or whatever it is, these are skills that will pay dividends for the rest of your life. Being able to break the ice with someone, being able to network with someone, being able to understand someone’s body language.
You know, another thing that I used to do when I was younger and living in London is would force myself every single day to go up to three girls and just say “Hello”. No pressure on what it is that I said, or getting their number or anything like that, but just say “hi” and introduce yourself. And you konw what, maybe they’re busy. A rejection and failure helped me to then go on and start my 1st business, which was actually an advertising agency. I had that business for six years, and it will made me my 1st few million dollars that I was then able to then go on and multiply build my wealth with, and also build my other companies with. So whatever social challenge you set for yourself tomorrow, just set something.
I mean, what is the worst that could happen? If you go up and you just compliment someone? I mean, imagine the blasphemy. How dare you go up and just give someone a compliment? You konw, you should really be scared.
1、设定每天和陌生人讲话的挑战（setting daily challenges to speak to new people）
2、永远选对业务（Choosing the right vehicle）
3、做生产者而不是消费者（Creating rather than consuming）
4、不要把任何人放在象牙塔上（Never put people on a pedestal）
5、考虑到连锁反应导致的后果（Thinking in 2nd order consequences）
还有，刷抖音的人最早只是想它不过是一个 App 而已，有什么可怕的，可是他们没有想到有一天他们会沉迷刷抖音，导致他们工作效率变低，甚至无法完成目标。
看看镜子中的自己，说 “我心中有理想，我脚下有力量，我有冲劲儿，我无人可挡，没人比我对未来的规划更重要，我最终会和美丽的女王抚养美丽的孩子，没人能打乱我的规划”（I am a man who’s on a mission, who’s on a purpose, who has drive, and no one’s going to stop me, no one is more important than the vision for the version of myself that will eventually raise beautiful kids with a beautiful queen, and no one’s going to knock me off that path）